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Name: Jenna
Location: Newark, Delaware, United States
Gender: Female
Interests: I'm a romantic. I love the beauty in the world. I love to read, and have intelligent conversation. I like to argue my point, without actually fighting.
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AIM:  xfgtxrainbowx
Member Since:
1/14/2007
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| "Why do women hate other women?"
Almost every guy I know has asked me this question at least once. To me, the answer has always seemed obvious. Now, there's something you have to know first, Men and women ARE different. That's why men have so much trouble understanding this phenomenon. I know some people are going to get mad when they read that. Now, don't get me wrong, I believe we're EQUAL, but we are different. So, when you read the answer, you need to understand that.
Women hate other women because... (Please understand I do not say ALL women are like this, just the majority.)
A] How they act in relationships. I don't mean dating them, of course, I mean, how girls act about other girls relationships. In most cases, when a guy starts dating a girl, his friends all begin to see her as off limits. She's not dateable anymore. She's seen as 'My friends girl.' There's no interest.
When a girl starts dating a guy on the other hand... it's different. Instead of all the women backing off, they suddenly come on strong, even if they had no interest before. Sometimes, even a woman's best friends will be interested in her man. Once a guy is in a relationship, he suddenly appeals more to other women. Mainly because 'If she's dating him, he must have something good going on." While men might think something like "man, I need to get a girl like that" about his friends new girl, a woman will often thing "I need to get THAT guy."
This brings me to my next point.
B] I firmly believe that a best friend is someone you can leave your wallet, car keys and significant other with for days alone, and when you come back, they'll hand you everything back exactly as it was. As far as I've seen, if you're a man or woman, and your best friend is a man, you'll usually get everything back. If you're a man, and your best friend is a woman, you'll get it back. If you're a woman and your best friend is a woman though...you might have problems.
Women don't like other women, because even their best friend will stab them in the back. I'm talking their best friend from freaking preschool even. I'm not saying it happens all the time, but even I know better than to trust all my friends with everything. It's a sad truth.
C] Women don't like other women because, we're competitive. And sometimes, we're jealous. There is no use sugarcoating it. Women want what other women have, for good reason. Think about. Society has been predominantly patriarchal for a long time. Suddenly, the glass ceiling starts to crack, and women are starting to be on top. Other women are jealous of the few. Kind of like when your best friend wins the lottery, and you were off by one number. Every woman wants to prove herself. While a man might be happy for his friend for getting the promotion at work, (because he sees many more chances in the future for himself) a woman might not be. (Because she thinks that one chance was HER chance. The only one.) Generally, women tend to have trouble being happy for other women. It sucks, but it's true.
D] Women rate themselves against other women, and don't like when they feel they fall short.
We all do it, at least a little. We all compare ourselves to our friends. You know, when you look nice, and your best friend happens to be looking a little frumpy that day, there's a boost of self esteem. We compare ourselves to our boyfriends ex, our neighbor, that skank that sits across from us in math class. And we're not very nice about it. I mean, when the "prettiest woman in the room" has a herpies outbreak, you can pretty much guarantee that several of the other women in the room are enjoying it. Say a woman sees another woman who has...nicer breasts for example. She may dislike her just for that. (Ties in with the whole competition thing) Now, say she finds out that womans breasts are fake, and infected.... More often than that, the thought process is gonna be "Ha. Skank deserved itttt."
The weird part about this is, that even if a woman has boyfriend/husband/fiancee/lesbian lover/whatever who thinks she's THE BEST looking woman in the world, more often than not, she's still going to do this.
And that is why women hate other women.
There are more reasons, I'm sure, but I'm tired so...there.
What do you think?
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| Love.
Probably the most important four letter word ever. Indeed, some of our most incredible feelings are expressed in four letter words. Life being one, and of course Love, Hate, Pain...
Isn't it amazing how four letters can express so much emotion?
And isn't it sad, that I can't express my own emotions, even after writing all of this?
I suppose at this point, this blog has become completely pointless.
When I write in here, I find it extremely hard to express how I truly feel.
Mostly because I know all of your are going to read it, and I know you'll have opinions on it, and I know some of those opinions are going to be quite negative, and to be honest, I can't express myself wholly while knowing that the things I say can, and will most likely will offend you.
Not that I care if I offend you, on the contrary, peoples adverse reactions to the things I say do naught but amuse me. It's more... I simply don't have the time to deal with peoples uneducated opinions right now.
For example, when I say something along the lines of "Hitler was brilliant." Everyone seems to feel the need to express their opposing opinion, without however appreciating the legitimacy of my statement. I did indeed say Hitler was brilliant, but I did not voice any approval whatsoever of the things he did. In truth he was a very influential person with a very brilliant mind, but that doesn't automatically make the things he did correct in any way.
You see what I mean? I don't like expressing my opinion when I know it's not going to be taken as it was intended, and instead will be interpreted in an incorrect way, and then of course, there will be no time for me to continue on with my expression.
And now I'm left pondering what on Earth this is about. It started on the expressionism to be found in the simplest words, went on to my opinion on public writings, and then on to the brilliance of Hitler. I suppose what I was trying to say originally has now become a moot point. | | |
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